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Alena
45 years old, Moscow, Russian Federation

About me

Do Not Waste My Time If You Are Looking For Something Temporary

I am on the lookout for everlasting love. For a concrete relationship. For the one who will transform home from a place into a person.

Casual relationships are not on my radar. If you invite me over for a drink, do not expect me to accept the invitation layered beneath. Do not expect me to trail you to your bedroom ten minutes into a movie neither of us are paying attention to in place of having a meaningful first date conversation with you about the complexities of our overlapping universes.

I would never blame you for wanting something casual. There are plenty of others with matched expectations, who would love the opportunity to enjoy a no-strings-attached night with you and spontaneously see where it goes afterward. Those hearts are the ones you should be forming connections with. They are the ones you should be pursuing because you could mutually benefit each other. But if you only want me for a temporary stay, there is no benefit for me. There is only disappointment.

I am not the one to fill the empty side of your bed for a night. Once I crawl beneath the covers, I make a home there.

I do not understand the definition of temporary. I cling to neighboring souls. Like a leach, I cannot be shaken off with sheer force.

For both of our sanities, do not waste my time if you are looking for something short-term. Do not string me along for your own entertainment. Do not knock down my walls when our expectations are misaligned.

I do not want to grow attached to someone who has an exit plan ready. I do not want to daydream about a future that is never going to exist. I do not want my energy zapped by someone who does not appreciate the attention.

My heart is not something you can loan as long as you would like and return once you are finished with your fun. It is not a toy you can borrow from my chest.

I am hoping to find a love with potential. A love that lasts as long as a star system.

I am ready for cozy nights on the couch, coffees at our dining table, egg breakfasts with ketchup smiley faces on the side. I am aware of how many twenty-somethings want the opposite of the items on my bullet list, but I believe there is someone out there who sees eye-to-eye. Someone who agrees with my homebody fantasies.

I do not want anything casual, questionable, or one-sided. I do not want to suffer from midnight wonders about whether I am worthy of your love. I want a stable relationship founded on trust, honesty, and reliability. I want a tranquil love. A reassuring love. A lifetime love.

Please, do not waste my time if you are looking for something temporary. I am not someone you can have sometimes. You can either hand me your heart for keeps or you can keep on walking.

Через 20 лет вы будете более сожалеть о том, чего не сделали, чем о том, что вы сделали.

Moving towards a goal can be long and tedious, but it's important that you move in its direction.
Age creates wrinkles on the body, and giving up dreams creates wrinkles in the shower.

Правило, по которому нужно жить – оставаться человеком в любых ситуациях.
Мы думаем, что бог видит нас сверху, но он видит нас изнутри.
Если вы найдете человека, с которым сможете себя вести также свободно как ведете себя наедине с собой, то цените его как воздух.
Сильный человек – это не тот, кто побеждает слабого, а тот кто помогает слабому стать сильным.
Случайностей не существует. Всё на этом свете либо испытание, либо наказание, либо награда.
Жизнь – не те дни что прошли, а те, что остались.
Там, где нас ждут, мы всегда оказываемся точно в срок.

Sa 20 taon, makikita mo maging mas paumanhin para sa kung ano ang hindi mo na gawin kaysa sa kung ano ang ginawa mo.

Paglipat patungo sa isang layunin ay maaaring maging mahaba at nakakapagod, ngunit ito ay mahalaga na iyong ilipat sa direksyon nito.
Edad ay lumilikha ng wrinkles sa katawan, at nagbibigay sa up ng mga pangarap ay lumilikha ng wrinkles sa shower.

Ang mga panuntunan sa pamamagitan ng kung saan upang mabuhay – upang manatili ang isang tao sa anumang sitwasyon.
Sa tingin namin na nakikita ng Diyos sa amin mula sa itaas, ngunit siya nakikita sa amin mula sa loob.
Kung mahanap mo ang isang tao na may kanino maaari mong kumilos bilang malayang bilang mo kumilos nang nag-iisa, pagkatapos ay ang halaga mo sa kanya pati na ang hangin.
Isang malakas na tao ay hindi ang isa na defeats ang mahina, ngunit ang isa kung sino ang tumutulong sa mga mahina upang maging malakas.
Walang mga aksidente. Lahat ng bagay sa mundong ito ay alinman sa isang pagsubok o isang kaparusahan o gantimpala.
Ang buhay ay hindi ang mga araw na lumipas, ngunit ang mga araw na mananatili.
Kung saan ay inaasahan namin na, kami ay palaging sa oras.

Just a few more things about me

  • Sexual orientation: Heterosexual
  • I speak: Russian
  • I'm looking for: Friends, Adventure, Soulmate, Job
  • Smoker: No
  • Drinking habits: Sometimes
  • Education: Trade/Technical
  • Income: Steady average income
  • Height: 166 cm (5' 05")

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Visited countries

Russian Federation
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