Ok, I’m lucky. I have no responsibilities, baggage or commitments and no boss lording over me. I’ve won, I’m a free man, that’s just what I’ve always wanted so I’m in a good place. Or, so I thought.

Obtaining my freedom had always been my life’s mission and gave me agency. But freedom once obtained is meaningless unless you know how you want to use that freedom. For most people, between kids, relatives and family the the answer is obvious. But I have none of these, no kids or family as I am the last of my line. The reason I am here, is to find that special someone who can make my life complete and can share my life with.

In the meantime I’m am trying lots of new things, short cruises, shopping for a boat, and expanding my e-commerce hobby business which is growing quickly. I have taken my business completely virtual. I have on-line employs in the Philippines an India that do my accounting and marketing so I can run it from anywhere in the world. I would also like to travel more as embarrassingly, I had once considered Hawaii an exotic destination. I need an experienced traveler to show me the world.

And of course, there is my racing. I love to drive fast. I have rented and driven Indy cars before... my next experience will be to rent an F-1 race car.. yes you can do that.. no its is not cheap.

I guess I have given up on finding someone exactly like myself. I only work 20 hours a week. If you are working 60 hours to make that next payment on that "S" Class, we may not be a good match. Instead, I would like to meet someone who is ready to slow down and smell the roses with me. You do not have to do it all by yourself. I will care for you, so you can care for me.

Woman wise, socal has spoiled me. I am confident my match will be attractive, in good health and young in spirit. Not embittered by the treatment received from men before me. Someone who is still capable of passion in mind, body and spirit. True passion can not be negotiated as it is organic in its origins. Love in its emotional and physical form should arise in concert as they reinforce one another.

My hope is to find a long term relationship, but I am not so hung up on finding the "one". That is a illusion and life is to short. I will make many mistakes along the way but understand that my life will still be made richer by the people and encounters I experience along the way. The truth is you have to meet people in person to find out, but there are pleasant surprises to be had if you are willing to take the risk.