I am looking for a partner and a lover and best friend who I can share the most intimate dreams with. A well rounded individual and a spiritual person.A first,second date for me does not constitute a perfect date, Nor a perfect person. I am an easygoing man that seeks an easygoing woman in my life as well.I believe there is no ideal relationship . Be honest ,a relationship is hard work and compromise. It is as good as you make it.What makes a relationship ideal to someone is how much time and effort one puts into it and how committed two people are. I also encourage her to go out and spend time with friends and pursue her own interests and hobbies as well.