My name is Mark 48 years old.I have been a widower for 4 years with 1 son and 1 daughter, I'm 6.1 fit tall and work as a contractor, I have brown eye's and brown hair, My friends say I am hard working and trustworthy with a good sense of humor. I enjoy a good laugh or making someone else laugh. I own my own business and have worked hard at it for approximately 20 years. I am grateful for what I have and I am looking for a long term relationship and all the wonderful things that go with it...long walks.. endless conversation . .. and doing things on the spur of the moment.

I volunteer in my community as a firefighter, there is nothing like seeing the appreciation on a neighbors face when you have helped them in their time of need. I have been a volunteer for about four years now and I do not plan on stopping anytime soon.

I enjoy traveling, walking, looking at the stars, watching a good movie, a good bottle of wine and your company. I truly believe the right woman is out there for me even though I have to say that NJ offers a lot of fakes. Please be honest and post a picture that was taken recently and not 10 years ago.

Be who you say you are and not what guys might want to hear. I'm pretty mild at heart, easy to get along with and a perfect gentle man... I'm excited to meet you and find out who you are.