Yes, the most important person in my life is I-Dmitrii Gheorghiu.
Accordingly, in your life the most important person are you - …
And it is valid so.
Us since the childhood accustom to dependence, that we something should someone.
Been born, you should eat one more spoon for the father, mum and other relatives. And then many cannot grow thin because of it.
You should conduct "correctly" yourself that parents were happy"and they did not have problems with tutors in a kindergarten and at school with teachers. зашоренные, the diffident, limited individuals as a result grow.
You should study well to get a job and, besides, that parents were happy. And many realises itself absolutely in hated spheres for itself.
You should work and pay taxes that the state could pay pensions, serve the device of officials, army, police …
Having reached 18 years, men should repay a debt to the Native land in army.
Having made a family and children, it is necessary for you to care of them.
Becoming the pensioner, you should help the children …
And right at the end the person is simply obliged to write the will …
Also any vicious circle turns out.
You all life something should someone. And your children too something should someone …
But where sense?
From generation to generation there is a same scheme - the person spends all life for everybody, only not on itself favourite!
But unless for this purpose all of us were born?
I think, first of all, we were born to spend the life for ourselves - to develop PERSONAL talents and callings, to rejoice to the achievements, MOST to learn the world …
But the developed educational system at all "hammers" in this requirement for self-realisation and personal happiness in the person.
Maturing, it gets to a rat race where every day someone something wants from it. And thus also on a lawful basis.
And that the most paradoxical, the more deeply the person plunges into this scheme, the more low efficiency and utility of its actions …
The head of the family, trying to provide a family with all necessary, suddenly understands that children have already grown also common language it with them and has not found. And so on …
But if as the corner-stone you put yourselves also your environment will receive from you much more.
Vivid example - Steve Jobs and Bill Gates.
They demanded and continue to demand from the employees of full self-return - works for 12-16 hours per day, sometimes without days off. Dismiss those who does not consult. And frequently and those who consults, but does not hold out to level of the best.
As a result they steels billionaires. And hundreds and even thousand persons who began together with them, became millionaires. Also continue to work with them, despite that can live for a long time already of what without caring.
But if they operated under the standard scheme hardly now someone knew about them.
Therefore, the most important person in your life are you.
Fall in love with itself! Start with what it would be desirable you, develop itself.
Do not put the life on an altar for others.
It is YOUR LIFE!
Only so you become successful and happy. And if you are successful and happy also all who surrounds you, to receive from you much more the help, support and all the rest that they so want from you …
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